Epiphanies

Thoughts, Actions & Control

Thoughts, Actions & Control

"I realise that most of the unhappiness in my life is due to other people not living up to my own expectations, or my fear of how others will react to me. How dare I expect others to think and act in a way that will make me happy, especially when I’m struggling to...

Epiphany #3: Love’s Fire

Epiphany #3: Love’s Fire

Many people believe that love either comes naturally or it doesn’t. Agreed: that initial attraction is either there or it isn't (and even that’s debatable), but if you want it to last, it takes as much work as anything else worthwhile in life. Love’s spark might be...

Epiphany #2: No one thing should determine your happiness.

Epiphany #2: No one thing should determine your happiness.

So often we allow a single thing, person, event etc. to determine our happiness. Should happiness and true joy have an on or off switch? I don’t think so. Life has so much variety and diversity to offer us, how could we be so narrow minded as to give one single aspect...